Working With Archetypes: Using Symbolic Figures for Self-Understanding
- Wendy H.
- Oct 9, 2023
- 9 min read
Updated: Oct 23
You don't need to worship gods to benefit from ancient wisdom.
The figures that populate mythology, folklore, and spiritual traditions—the Warrior, the Healer, the Wise Woman, the Trickster, the Mother, the Crone—aren't just characters in old stories. They're archetypes: universal patterns of human experience that live in our collective unconscious.
Working with archetypes isn't about literal deity worship or religious devotion. It's about using symbolic figures as mirrors for understanding yourself, developing qualities you want to embody, and navigating different life phases and challenges.
This is psychological work dressed in mythological language. It's accessible whether you believe in gods or not, whether you're religious, spiritual, or secular.
Let's talk about how to work with archetypes as tools for growth, clarity, and self-understanding.
What Archetypes Actually Are
Carl Jung, the Swiss psychiatrist, proposed that certain patterns of behavior, personality, and experience appear across all human cultures. He called these patterns archetypes—universal symbols that live in what he termed the "collective unconscious."
Examples of archetypes:
The Mother: Nurturing, protective, life-giving
The Warrior: Courageous, disciplined, action-oriented
The Sage: Wise, reflective, seeking truth
The Lover: Passionate, connected, sensual
The Trickster: Playful, disruptive, boundary-breaking
The Magician: Transformative, mysterious, powerful
These aren't literal beings. They're patterns—ways of being that humans have recognized and named across time and culture.
When you "work with an archetype," you're not worshipping or invoking an external entity.
You're examining which patterns show up in your life, which ones you need to develop, and which ones currently dominate your behavior.
It's introspection with symbolic language.
Why Work With Archetypes?
Using archetypes as a framework for self-understanding offers several benefits:
They Give Language to Inner Experience
Sometimes you can't articulate what you're feeling or what you need. But you can recognize: "I'm in my Maiden phase right now—curious, exploring, not ready to commit."
Or: "I need to embody the Warrior more—I've been too passive about my boundaries."
Archetypes provide vocabulary for internal states that are otherwise hard to name.
They Help You Navigate Transitions
Life moves through phases. Young adulthood looks different than middle age. Grief looks different than joy. Career-building looks different than retirement.
Different archetypes correspond to different life phases and challenges. Recognizing which archetype fits your current situation helps you understand what you need and how to move forward.
They Show You Your Patterns
If you notice you always play the Caretaker in relationships, that's information. If you default to the Rebel whenever authority shows up, that's a pattern worth examining.
Archetypes help you see your habitual responses and decide whether they're still serving you.
They Offer Models for Development
Want to be braver? Study the Warrior archetype. Need to set better boundaries? Look at the Queen. Trying to access creativity? Work with the Artist or Magician.
Archetypes give you a map for developing qualities you want to embody.
Common Archetypes and What They Represent
Here are some widely recognized archetypes and what they offer:
The Maiden
Qualities: Curiosity, innocence, new beginnings, exploration, independence, potential
When to work with this: Starting something new, feeling playful and open, early stages of projects or relationships, when you need to remember possibility
Shadow side: Naivety, avoidance of responsibility, perpetual beginner syndrome
The Mother
Qualities: Nurturing, protective, generative, patient, unconditional love, life-giving
When to work with this: Caring for others (or yourself), creating something new, needing compassion, building or tending
Shadow side: Smothering, martyrdom, losing yourself in service, enabling
The Crone
Qualities: Wisdom, endings, release, truth-telling, acceptance, deep knowledge, integration
When to work with this: Life transitions, letting go, seeking wisdom, accepting mortality, speaking hard truths
Shadow side: Bitterness, isolation, rigidity, harsh judgment
The Warrior
Qualities: Courage, discipline, boundaries, action, protection, focus, strength
When to work with this: Defending yourself or others, facing fear, taking action, maintaining discipline, setting boundaries
Shadow side: Aggression, rigidity, inability to rest, viewing everything as battle
The Lover
Qualities: Passion, connection, sensuality, intimacy, pleasure, appreciation of beauty
When to work with this: Deepening relationships, experiencing pleasure, connecting with body, appreciating beauty
Shadow side: Codependency, losing boundaries, jealousy, addiction to intensity
The Sage
Qualities: Wisdom, reflection, teaching, seeking truth, contemplation, mentorship
When to work with this: Making important decisions, teaching others, seeking understanding, philosophical inquiry
Shadow side: Detachment, overthinking, condescension, analysis paralysis
The Magician
Qualities: Transformation, mystery, power, ritual, bridging worlds, creating change
When to work with this: Major life changes, ritual work, manifesting, accessing intuition, transformation
Shadow side: Manipulation, spiritual bypassing, inflated ego, using "magic" to avoid practical action
The Trickster
Qualities: Playfulness, disruption, humor, boundary-breaking, teaching through chaos
When to work with this: Breaking rigid patterns, not taking things too seriously, questioning authority, shaking things up
Shadow side: Destructiveness, inability to commit, sabotaging stability, cruelty disguised as humor
The Queen/King
Qualities: Authority, sovereignty, leadership, responsibility, maturity, self-governance
When to work with this: Taking charge of your life, leading others, making important decisions, claiming your power
Shadow side: Tyranny, entitlement, rigidity, inability to be vulnerable
The Healer
Qualities: Compassion, restoration, mending, understanding pain, service, transformation through care
When to work with this: Recovering from illness or trauma, helping others heal, emotional repair, tending wounds
Shadow side: Codependency, savior complex, burnout, inability to receive care
How to Work With Archetypes
Now that you understand what archetypes are, here's how to actually use them as tools for growth:
1. Identify Which Archetypes Are Active in Your Life
Reflection questions:
Which archetype do I embody most naturally right now?
Which archetype shows up in my work? My relationships? My creative life?
Which archetype am I avoiding or suppressing?
Which archetype would I benefit from developing?
Method:
Journal on these questions
Notice patterns in your behavior
Ask trusted friends which archetypes they see in you
Pay attention to which mythological or fictional characters you're drawn to (they often embody archetypes you resonate with)
2. Study the Archetype You Want to Work With
If you want to embody the Warrior more:
Read myths about warrior figures (Athena, Mulan, Joan of Arc)
Study what "warriorship" actually means (discipline, courage, boundaries)
Notice how warriors show up in stories, films, history
Identify what qualities the Warrior has that you need
This isn't worship—it's research.
You're learning the contours of the archetype so you can consciously embody its strengths and avoid its shadow aspects.
3. Create a Practice Around the Archetype
This can look like:
Altar work:
Dedicate part of your altar to the archetype you're working with
Include symbols that represent that archetype (crown for Queen, sword for Warrior, books for Sage)
Spend time at your altar contemplating that archetype's qualities
Embodiment practice:
"If I were embodying the Queen right now, how would I handle this situation?"
"What would the Warrior do here?"
"How does the Healer approach this conflict?"
Journaling prompts:
"What does the [archetype] want me to know right now?"
"Where am I suppressing my [archetype]?"
"How can I express [archetype] in my daily life?"
Ritual:
Create a simple ritual declaring your intention to embody an archetype
Light a candle and speak aloud: "I call on the energy of the Warrior within me. I embrace courage, discipline, and clear boundaries."
Sit with that intention for a few minutes
4. Notice Where the Archetype Shows Up
Pay attention to:
Synchronicities (seeing symbols of the archetype repeatedly)
Dreams featuring the archetype or its symbols
Situations that call you to embody that archetype
How you naturally express (or resist) that archetype
Example: If you're working with the Mother archetype and suddenly three friends ask you for support in the same week, that's the archetype showing up in your life. You're being called to step into that nurturing role.
5. Balance with Other Archetypes
No single archetype should dominate your entire life.
If you're always the Warrior, you'll burn out. If you're always the Mother, you'll lose yourself. If you're always the Sage, you'll become detached.
Healthy practice involves:
Recognizing which archetype is most active
Developing archetypes you've neglected
Switching between archetypes as situations require
Avoiding over-identification with any single pattern
6. Work With the Shadow
Every archetype has a shadow side—the distorted or excessive expression of that pattern.
Examples:
The Mother's shadow: Smothering, martyrdom, codependency
The Warrior's shadow: Aggression, inability to rest, viewing everything as conflict
The Lover's shadow: Codependency, jealousy, loss of boundaries
When working with an archetype, ask:
"How might this archetype show up in unhealthy ways?"
"Am I expressing the shadow side of this archetype?"
"What's the balanced expression of this pattern?"
Shadow work prevents you from becoming a caricature of the archetype.
Archetypes vs. Deities: What's the Difference?
Some people work with mythological gods and goddesses as literal beings they worship and pray to. That's deity work—it's religious devotion.
Working with archetypes is different:
Deity work:
Belief in literal divine beings
Worship, offerings, prayers
Relationship with external entities
Religious framework
Archetype work:
Psychological lens
Symbols for inner patterns
Self-development tool
Can be secular or spiritual
You can do both. Some practitioners work with deities religiously AND use archetypes psychologically.
But if you're not comfortable with the idea of worshipping gods, archetype work gives you access to the same symbolic wisdom without requiring religious belief.
Practical Example: Working With the Warrior
Let's walk through what it actually looks like to work with an archetype.
Situation: You struggle with boundaries. You say yes when you mean no. You let people walk over you. You avoid conflict even when standing up for yourself is necessary.
Archetype to work with: The Warrior
Step 1: Study
Read about warrior archetypes in mythology (Athena, Durga, Mulan)
Notice what qualities warriors embody: courage, discipline, boundaries, willingness to fight when necessary
Identify what "being a warrior" means beyond literal combat: defending what matters, saying no, taking action despite fear
Step 2: Create practice
Add symbol to your altar (small sword, image of warrior figure, red candle)
Each morning, light candle and say: "I embody the Warrior today. I defend my boundaries with courage and clarity."
Sit for 2 minutes visualizing yourself as strong, clear, unshakeable
Step 3: Embody
When situations arise requiring boundaries, ask: "What would the Warrior do?"
Practice saying no clearly and without apology
Notice when you default to people-pleasing (opposite of Warrior)
Consciously choose the Warrior response instead
Step 4: Notice patterns
Journal: "Where did I embody the Warrior today? Where did I avoid it?"
Track progress: "I said no to that extra project. I spoke up in that meeting. I didn't apologize for having needs."
Celebrate small wins
Step 5: Balance
Notice if you start becoming TOO warrior-like (aggressive, rigid, unable to be soft)
Integrate other archetypes: "I can be the Warrior AND the Lover. I can have strong boundaries AND be warm."
After weeks/months of this work:
Your boundaries improve
You feel more confident
The Warrior energy becomes integrated (not something you have to consciously call on)
You can shift to working with a different archetype if needed
When Archetype Work Is Most Useful
Life transitions:
Starting new career (Maiden energy)
Becoming a parent (Mother/Father archetype)
Mid-life shifts (Crone wisdom)
Ending relationships (Crone's release)
Developing specific qualities:
Need more courage? Warrior
Need more wisdom? Sage
Need more playfulness? Trickster
Need more self-authority? Queen/King
Understanding patterns:
Always the Caretaker in relationships? Examine Mother archetype and its shadow
Always rebelling? Look at Trickster and what it's protecting you from
Always seeking knowledge but never acting? Sage's shadow (overthinking)
Shadow work:
Which archetypes do you judge in others? (Often ones you've suppressed in yourself)
Which archetypes show up in distorted ways? (Work with the healthy expression)
What This Isn't
Let's be clear about what archetype work is NOT:
❌ Not religious worship - You're not praying to gods or making offerings to deities
❌ Not cultural appropriation - You're working with universal patterns, not closed spiritual practices
❌ Not escaping responsibility - "The Trickster made me do it" isn't valid
❌ Not rigid roles - You're not locked into one archetype forever
❌ Not replacement for therapy - Deep psychological issues need professional help
❌ Not magical thinking - Archetypes won't solve problems without action
It IS:
✅ Psychological tool for self-understanding
✅ Framework for personal development
✅ Way to access different aspects of yourself
✅ Method for navigating life transitions
✅ Practice that can be secular or spiritual
Getting Started
If you want to begin working with archetypes:
This week:
Read through the archetype descriptions above
Identify which one resonates most right now
Journal: "Why am I drawn to this archetype? What quality does it have that I need?"
Next week: 4. Add one symbol of that archetype to your altar or space 5. Spend 5 minutes each morning contemplating that archetype's qualities 6. Throughout the day, ask: "How would [archetype] handle this?"
Ongoing: 7. Notice patterns, shadow expressions, growth 8. Switch archetypes as your needs change 9. Develop neglected archetypes 10. Use this as ongoing tool for self-understanding
Closing
Archetypes are maps, not destinations.
They're ways of understanding yourself, developing qualities you want to embody, and navigating the different phases and challenges of being human.
You don't need to believe in gods to benefit from the wisdom embedded in mythological figures. You just need to recognize that these patterns—the Warrior, the Mother, the Sage, the Trickster—live in all of us.
Working with archetypes is about bringing consciousness to which patterns are active in your life, which ones you need to develop, and which ones have taken over in unhealthy ways.
Start simple. Pick one archetype that resonates. Study it. Embody it. Notice what shifts.
The work is psychological. The language is mythological. The results are practical.
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